THESE ARE THE TRADITIONAL INSTRUCTIONS
While dressed in your Shabbat or holiday attire, place several coins in a charity box. Many keep the custom of dedicating this charity to the poor in Israel. Extend your hands over the candles, draw them inwards three times in a circular motion, and then cover your eyes, similar to how angels cover their eyes (Isaiah. 6) While your eyes are still cov ered, it is an auspicious time to pray for your heart's desires. The custom is to pray for your family (health, happiness…). Take the time to also pray for others who need blessings and good health. Uncover your eyes, gaze at the candles, and then greet everyone with blessings of a good Shabbat – “Shabbat Shalom”. With the lighting of the candles, you usher in the holy Shabbat. No "weekday" activities are to be done from that point on, as you have now entered a world of tranquility.